Solomon Mkubwa shared his insights on the reasons why men cheat, shedding light on often overlooked aspects of male behavior in relationships.
Mkubwa, known for his hit song “Mungu Mwenye Nguvu,” emphasized three key factors contributing to infidelity, urging women to understand and navigate these dynamics for healthier relationships.
He says men’s sense of pride and entitlement is one of the reasons men cheat According to him, men often expect to be treated with reverence and respect akin to that of kings, leading to friction when their authority is questioned or challenged. This inherent need for validation and recognition can strain relationships if not addressed with empathy and understanding.
Solomon Mkubwa also pointed out the element of childishness inherent in men. Drawing from personal experience in his marriage, he noted how the arrival of children can sometimes overshadow the affection and attention previously directed towards the spouse. This shift in dynamics, if not managed effectively, can leave men feeling neglected and seeking validation elsewhere, potentially leading to infidelity.
The presence of cruelty within every man to some degree can lead to cheating he argues. He suggested that when pushed to the brink, these darker tendencies can manifest, resulting in destructive behavior and emotional turmoil within relationships.
Understanding and addressing these underlying traits, Mkubwa argues, is crucial for facilitating mutual respect and trust between partners.