Nollywood actress, Eberechukwu Bayray McNwizu, has advised women to follow their hearts because there’s nothing wrong with making the first move towards a man they like.
Speaking with Saturday Beats, Bayray McNwizu said although there’s nothing wrong with ‘shooting their shots’, they shouldn’t act desperate.
The Tiwa’s Baggage movie star further explained that when men find it difficult to read positive signs a lady is showing, such woman should become vocal about their intentions. Bayray McNwizu said:
“There are pros and cons when it comes to women ‘shooting their shots.’ If one does not want to waste one’s time, just find out what is working. It is always about knowing where to apply the gauge, knowing when to proceed, how fast to move and when to stop. These things are so important. If one likes somebody as a woman, know how to proceed and know how fast one can take action.
“Also, know when to stop because one cannot afford to look desperate. A woman needs to have a healthy self-concept about herself and know that she is a queen. If a woman wants to be in a man’s life, that woman has to bring a lot of value to the table. If the man cannot see that, then the woman should help him. If the man is interested, he will chase the woman. If he is not, then the both the man and the woman can settle for friendship. It’s even more valuable to have friendships that can blossom into other things as opposed to immediate romantic relationships.”
The Nollywood star also talked about actors being signed to a management company. The Screen Diva said:
“Actors need to be more open to the idea of a management. Ninety percent of people are not open to that. Management comes with structure. In addition, the management too needs to go back to school to understand how Nigeria works, to know what will work in Nigeria and what will not work in Nigeria. The film industry needs to be more open to that because it helps to protect everybody’s interest.”