“Time spent looking for a good woman should be time spent making yourself a good man”

A Nigerian Pastor identified as AB Isong, hailing from Akwa Ibom, has advised men to prioritize personal growth over solely searching for a good woman, emphasizing that becoming better individuals is key to fostering healthy relationships.

With his post gaining traction on social media, Pastor Isong advocates the idea that self-improvement and personal growth are essential steps in attracting positive and meaningful relationships.

He believes that by focusing on their own development, men can naturally draw good people into their lives.

In his words;

“Time spent looking for a good woman should be time spent making yourself a good man. Once you are good, you’ll attract something good.” 

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