A single mother of five shocks the internet as she vows never to date men who already has kids, stating she’s too young to handle such a responsibility.
This revelation was made in a viral post on TikTok, where the woman candidly expressed her opinion.
She explained that as a mother of five, she cannot imagine being in a relationship with a man who has two or more children, as this would make her responsible for at least seven kids.
She insisted she would only date single men without children.
In her words: “I cannot date a guy that already has kids because I have five kids. Imagine if you’re coming with your kids into the relationship—I have five, you have two—now I have to be a mother of seven kids.”
“There’s no way; I can’t be a mother of seven kids. I’m very young to handle that.”
The woman further explained her preferences: “I’m better off with my five kids. If a guy comes to date me, he has to have no kids and must be ready to be a stepdad to my kids. I want a present father. If you’re going to date me, you’re going to date me with my kids. It’s a must—you have to take care of us financially, provide for my kids and me. I am not working.”
“We come as a package deal. I don’t want your kids. I don’t have to date a guy that has kids because I already have my own.”
“If you’re interested as a guy, hit my inbox and be ready to be a stepfather.”
As the post circulated online, it sparked heated debates, with many users flooding the comment section to share their thoughts.
See some reactions below:
stufuzaesihle❤️: “I see no problem here, she has her preferences. Same as a guy who doesn’t want a women without kids whereas he has kids. There are men who think this exact way… Baningi futhi.”
kefas Dube: “5kids already is more than a red flag but a red carpet 😂😂😂😂😂😂.”
peaceness4: “I’m very young to be a mother of seven kids🤣🤣🤣🤣.”
HBee: “The only part I’m struggling to comprehend is when she says, “we come as a bargain”.”
Dee: “This made me to take a celibacy decision for 2025 thank u sis.”
anonymous: “There are men who think like this too but want to judge her. It’s her preference too🌚👍.”
Prince Major: “Okay I understand is her preferences, but why must I be a present father if I dont have kids😂😂.”
Thula Mkhize: “This is just sad and funny at the same time 😂🥺 She wants to receive, and not give… It’s a “bargain” indeed 😂🤣.”
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@whalebrilo She’s in a big big ⚠️danger if she uses the same mindset when crossing the road 🛣️.
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