Relationship guru advises women who accept men’s bad behavior

A relationship guru has advised women, letting them know men are not dumb but rather know the women who will accept their bad behavior and go on to treat them horribly.

He shared the video to his Tiktok page, @kingsleyeyitaproduction, where he usually makes videos advising people on dating and lifestyle.

According to him, a man who doesn’t put effort to be with a woman remains that way because she tolerates it , saying men are not as dumb as they make it out to seem.

He explained in an hypothetical example that the same guy who doesn’t put effort for one woman will do the most for another woman because she doesn’t tolerate nonchalance and he would conform to her standards.

The relationship guru blamed women who did not set standards and hold on to it, citing that as the reason why men act very lackadaisical with them.

See some reactions below…

@Geraldine Timkay🥰 said: “my friend will watch this and still make excuses for him. How can I help her ?”

@Ekkua added: “I got this wisdom , and I started attracting responsible men…. Men are not complicated, don’t be over excited because a man showed interest you!!!”

@S4SS-QU33N wrote: “Then they label you as dramatic or argumentative because you know how to stand your ground”

@Kalizya Clara Tija M said: “I learnt this lesson abit late but better late than never,I never understood why I was treated like a door mat, I was the “understanding girlfriend”

Watch video here

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The goal of this video is to tell women that men are not as dumb as you might think, We know which women we can get away with bad treatment with and which women. We dare not treat badly. These women in general are women with very high standards and they enforce those standards when they need to. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology

♬ original sound – Kingsley Eyita | Life Topics.