A Nigerian man identified as @Oloye on Twitter has shared his heartbreaking experience when his girlfriend expressed her intention to break up with him in favor of being with a cyber fraudster, commonly known as a Yahoo boy.
The incident, which occurred during their university days, left a lasting impact on @Oloye, who claimed that something within him “died” that day.
Recalling the distressing episode, @Oloye described how he broke down in tears upon learning of his girlfriend’s intentions.
The news of her choosing a life associated with a Yahoo boy, notorious for engaging in cyber fraud, came as a devastating blow to him.
The incident took place during their time in university, an already challenging phase of life, further exacerbating the emotional turmoil experienced by @Oloye.
Since that fateful day, @Oloye has found it difficult to trust and open his heart fully.
He confessed that the incident had left him emotionally scarred and changed his perspective on relationships.
Whenever someone attempts to guilt-trip him now, he flashes back to the moment he cried in front of his girlfriend, reinforcing his hardened heart.
@defgreat said; “At some point, I recommend every man to get his heartbroken, it refines you and builds character while it destroys some.”
@mina_winst said; “It honestly saddens my heart when I see men drifting away from emotions due to wrong women. Someone of us are genuine and we love emotionally available men 😞”
@udohquinn said; “Mine was making me look like the problem and I was doing everything to make the relationship work, like my life depended on it thank God am better now.”
@Iykekomo_ said; “You just helped remember something I think I can forget lol 😂. Mine was during my undergraduate days, I was really trying to impress the babe, tryna make everything to work but then she just showed me a different side of the foolish feelings I had then.”
@sithemb83100791 said; “Every man needs a heartbreak, to know that his purpose and mission is always his priority in life.”
See below;
The day I cried in front of a girl after she secured herself a yahoo boy and was ready to leave me.
Something died inside me that day.
Nowadays when they try to guilt trip me, I just go back to that day.
Bro. I been dead inside since uni. Nothing dey move me.
— Olóyè. (@Ol0ye) July 7, 2023