A lady shares her account of ending a friendship spanning over a decade after her male friend exposed himself in her residence.
The Nigerian lady identified as Koromone, took to social media to recount the incident, emphasizing that there had never been a sexual relationship between them and that his actions shattered her trust.
Additionally, she expressed her intention to raise awareness among young women who might be facing similar situations but unsure of how to handle them.
In her tweet, she wrote:
“I’m not sharing this because I want pity but because I want to raise awareness for young women who have experienced the same and didn’t know what to do. 2 days ago, a close friend came over to listen to my album & at the end, he exposed himself in my house. Trust shattered. 10+ years of friendship down the drain.
“A complete violation of my living space and our friendship. We’ve never been involved sexually so what was the plan? Was he expecting the gawk hawk 3000? I don’t know. But people it is not okay to expose yourself to your friends. It is not. I let him leave with his dignity.
“Before I blocked him on everything, I sent him a message letting him know what he was wrong and that whatever friendship we had was done. If a man does not want to respect me or my space, I am happy to let him walk. If your guy friend ever does this to you, please let him know that he crossed a boundary immediately. Whatever you decide next is up to you, but I will not tolerate it.
“If you guys don’t want to respect yourselves or learn self-control, you will lose your friends, jobs, and many other things. I’m still processing but I know this will take a long time to forgive.
“My house is closed and I won’t be hugging anyone of the opposite sex or allowing them to touch me until further notice. I’m taking my body back. You guys have tried.”
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