“If you need peace, keep your mouth shut” – Minister for Women Affairs advises women not to exchange words with partner

• Uju Kennedy-Ohaneye, the Minister for Women Affairs, has advised women to avoid confrontations with their husbands to prevent being beaten by them.

• On February 28, she appealed at a Conference of Commissioners of State Ministries of Women Affairs in Nigeria in Abuja.

• The minister emphasized the importance of avoiding trading words to prevent potential physical assaults that could result in injury or death.

Uju Kennedy-Ohaneye, the Minister for Women Affairs, has advised women to stay away from conflict with their partner in order to prevent being physically assaulted by them.

On Wednesday, February 28, she made the appeal at a Conference of Commissioners of State Ministries of Women Affairs in Nigeria in Abuja.

According to the minister, refraining from exchanging words will stop violent attacks that can cause harm or even death.

“I am equally begging my women not to look for trouble, not even at home. Maintain peace in your home because if a home is peaceful, the woman has 80 percent to contribute to that. If you need peace, you can equally achieve it. Keep your mouth shut. Talking back does not yield fruit, rather it leads to death and destruction, it leads to bringing up bad children for society. Keep your mouth shut, it does not make you a fool but a wise person. When the man is shouting and saying all sorts of things, act like a fool and keep your mouth shut.

After a while, watch him. If he is a good man, he will come back to apologise. If he is not a good one, ignore him. Have what you want to do in your mind, but when we show who we are and we fight back, most times, it leads to hitting; you could be injured.

The same man that injures you will come back to say I am sorry. What will you do? Will you kill him? Even if we come out to fight for you and you lose one eye, are we going to replace the eye? So prevention is better than cure.”she saidThe minister called for the signing of a law that would provide a mobile court to try gender and sexual based offences. She promised to lead a protest to the office of the Minister of Justice and Attorney General of the federation to sign the law.