A Nigerian lady lists the day-to-day activities that are common signs of cheating but are easily neglected due to the normality of these actions.
A social media user identified as @CHI_funmii took to the microblogging platform, X to emphasize the signs of infidelity to be conscious about.
According to the lady, giving attention to other people other than your partner is cheating as it indicates a motive to have an affair if time and location present themselves.
She added that being in a relationship equals total devolution to that one person, anything outside that can be considered as infidelity.
In her words;
“Some of you think cheating is until, you become sexually involved with another person. This isn’t the case at all.
YOU ARE CHEATING IF;
- Another person’s chat makes you happy other than your spouse.
- You hide chats from your partner.
- You look forward to their chat.
- You give them excessive attention.”
Her claim has since generated a wave of reactions, many of whom agreed with her school of thought.
Reactions as lady list signs of cheating
deriqblaq said: “I often say cheating doesn’t happen the day it happens
It’s mostly premiditated
Planned
Kept secret
Carefully thought out & executed
It wasn’t a “mistake/accident”
You weren’t just walking, kicked a stone & stumbled in bed with the opposite gender naked & penetration occurred.”
Chimdi0811 penned: “99% of people in relationships in Nigeria Dey cheat if na like this. No cap.”
Thefranknation stated: “They will dating Somebody but their TIME & ATTENTION is for everybody. Zero Loyalty & Commitment. Accountability Zero.”
InanaPaul noted: “My own is I won’t even think twice once I notice something and I ask you.
Bae: who is this guy
And you start defending or saying some crap
Me I go just off my mic towards you and slowly move on.”
shyvvonnety said: “I thought we all know these things already.”
