“Assisting your family secretly without your wife’s consent is cheating” – Lady argues, Nigerians react

A lady has sparked an online debate as she claims that a man is cheating when he secretly assists his family without his wife’s consent.

In a discussion about the various forms and acts of cheating and infidelity in marriages, the lady said that giving out assistance by the husband to his family is also cheating when he doesn’t seek the wife’s consent to do so.

Her words read;

“Assisting your family secretly without your wife consent is also cheating in marriage.”

Her statement has garnered different views from other social media users who argued in favour and against her opinion.

Check out other netizens reactions …

princewilson_ posited: “If aman has to “secretly” help his family/members or assist them when it’s within his power, then you should check yourself, you’re not a good wife”

ajuba101 said: “If as a man, you can’t give to your family without the permission of you wife; you’re a disappointment to your family.

You don’t need your woman’s consent to do anything for your family.

If her family has problems, who does he tell?”

timzytim5 opined: “If he has to “secretly” do it then you’re the problem.”

onyinye_bakee said: “Na so ena take dey carry pikin wey person [email protected] born. | go carry my son for months u go tell am make e no help me. U lie.”

ekanemaffi observed: “Some people make this marriage sound like bondage. God abeg.”

xena_sage wrote “The fact he even has to “secretly” help his family says a lot about the wife.”

ire_yi_mika said: “But assisting your own family isn’t cheatina right”