A Nigerian lady revealed that her friend is currently in a relationship with a man, her boyfriend who beats her at least 20 times a day, and whenever she’s out, she must stay on a video call with him until she returns.
This revelation came in a lengthy statement she shared on her page via the popular social media platform X, formerly known as Twitter.
In the post, the Nigerian lady mentioned that on several occasions, she has advised her friend to leave the man and find someone else.
However, her friend’s excuse has always been that no one would marry her if she did.
Her statement read: “my friend has been in a relationship with this guy who beats her up, he literally stopped her from hanging out with us . If he lets her go out they’ll be on video call till she leaves, if the call ends he’d break up with her.He has diminished her self worth to the point that.”
“She says that “if I leave him who will date me” we’ve told her otherwise too many times . Fast forward to at least 20 beatings later today, he has been beating her since in the afternoon , she managed to share her live location to my other friend who is closer to her on getting there.”
As the post circulated online, concerned individuals flooded the comment section to share their thoughts.
See some reactions below:
@wenduly09: “Why do we women allow ourselves to go through this? I can’t wrap my head around this fr.”
@pyperolling: “Make we see evidence and the reason why she hasn’t left is because of Money not love 😂 anyway chop 2 blow collect one wig.”
@nuela_merit: “If she had a job that is demanding. She go don forget am. If women are financially empowered and educated on self worth, a lot of rubbish will avoid them.”
@SlaywithAce: “I don’t think she’s loved at home. My ex hit me once and that relationship ended right there on that spot. No going back no conversation. Just straight blocking and moving on.”
@ChukAnny57880: “Wetin she dey find ? Why didn’t she leave since? Why didn’t she end the relationship, she doesn’t have parents?”
@amaranweke4: “When she’s ready ,she knows what to do,for now she’s in love and like you know you can’t advise a woman in love.”
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